Relationship Satisfaction Quiz

Unfortunately, many couples delay the decision to get counseling until it becomes a crisis situation. Use this quiz to see if you might benefit from seeing a professional couples counselor.

Choose the most appropriate number for each statement regarding your relationship.

1=Never, 5=Always

1. My partner and I agree on how to solve problems.  1  2  3  4  5

2. My partner and I are able to resolve our conflicts.  1  2  3  4  5

3. My partner and I treat each other with respect.  1  2  3  4  5

4. My partner and I are satisfied with our sexual relationship.  1  2  3  4  5

5. My partner and I agree on how to handle our finances.  1  2  3  4  5

6. My partner and I agree on a philosophy of parenting.  1  2  3  4  5

7. My partner and I have a fair balance of responsibilities.  1  2  3  4  5

8. My partner and I regularly spend leisure time together.  1  2  3  4  5

9. My partner and I are commited to working on our relationship.  1  2  3  4  5

10. My partner and I understand that a good relationship takes work.  1  2  3  4  5

If your score is lower than you'd like, consider couples or marriage counseling to improve your relationship.* 


Additional thoughts on relationship satisfaction:

-  70% of couples experience a dip in relationship satisfaction after the birth of a child.

-  Contrary to popular wisdom, it is feelings of estrangement, isolation and loneliness that are the driving force causing marital separation and *not* conflict or anger.


* Please keep in mind the above couples quiz is solely for informational purposes. It does not constitute therapy in any way.


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Denver, CO 80210
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