Relationship Satisfaction Quiz
Unfortunately, many couples delay the decision to get counseling until it becomes a crisis situation. Use this quiz to see if you might benefit from seeing a professional couples counselor.
Choose the most appropriate number for each statement regarding your relationship.
1=Never, 5=Always
1. My partner and I agree on how to solve problems. 1 2 3 4 5
2. My partner and I are able to resolve our conflicts. 1 2 3 4 5
3. My partner and I treat each other with respect. 1 2 3 4 5
4. My partner and I are satisfied with our sexual relationship. 1 2 3 4 5
5. My partner and I agree on how to handle our finances. 1 2 3 4 5
6. My partner and I agree on a philosophy of parenting. 1 2 3 4 5
7. My partner and I have a fair balance of responsibilities. 1 2 3 4 5
8. My partner and I regularly spend leisure time together. 1 2 3 4 5
9. My partner and I are commited to working on our relationship. 1 2 3 4 5
10. My partner and I understand that a good relationship takes work. 1 2 3 4 5
If your score is lower than you'd like, consider couples or marriage counseling to improve your relationship.*
Additional thoughts on relationship satisfaction:
- 70% of couples experience a dip in relationship satisfaction after the birth of a child.
- 30%-50% of couples experiencing marital problems have a partner who is clinically depressed.
- Contrary to popular wisdom, it is feelings of estrangement, isolation and loneliness that are the driving force causing marital separation and *not* conflict or anger.
* Please keep in mind the above couples quiz is solely for informational purposes. It does not constitute therapy in any way.